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When you meet a good guy

You have come out of it alive; albeit, scarred and damaged. You have been put through the ringer. You are currently feeling bent and broken. You have just been through a kind of romantic whirlwind. Your romantic life has been a hurricane so far lately.

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Things that Happen When You Meet a Good Guy After a Toxic Relationship

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And it takes everything in you to not walk away. And even when you walk away, you find yourself going back so many times because you miss him. You miss the adrenaline rush of high intense emotions. From love to screaming to making up. But then you meet a good guy. And sometimes you even push people away because of it.

Even yourself. You wonder how you tolerated such a relationship for so long. And you enter every relationship expecting the worst of someone. You make crazy assumptions and doubt really good people just because of one person. Someone treating you this well has got to be too good to be true. So when you get it you reject it. You keep waiting for a fight.

But instead, everything gets talked out and explained. He redefines these horrible standards she has and he chooses to be the exception.

You think they are better off without you but the truth is just as they have made your life better it goes both ways. But your sensitivity. Your compassion. Your strength and understanding and lack of judgment in everyone is what makes you beautiful. And when you finally get comfortable and accept this relationship you are going to love this person with everything you have in you.

So you had to try too hard. You had to compete. You had to prove yourself. A moment you trust him to let him that close. I know someone in your past taught you about tough love. They taught you vulnerability is a weakness.

But all of it has made you more beautiful than you know. And all of it will make the right person appreciate you for overcoming all of it. You begin to realize that relationship that used to define your standard of love was so far from the real thing. Love is not anything that comes in the form of jealousy. The right type of love does not play games with your heart or want to see you in pain.

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We fail to realize when we end up in most relationships, the amount of time and emotion and energy we are wasting on someone who is never going to be what we need. But when people in the past have used words to further relationships physically, you stop believing what people say. And when you devalue sex in relationships regardless of how the relationship is defined, the experience changes. Doubts cross your mind still.

That is, unless you decide this guy is worth the effort. Maybe then, despite the bad timing, you can end up happily ever after.

In learning to trust yourself more and trust your instincts, you put up higher walls not making it so easy for the next person. You grew painfully guarded to protect yourself because sadly you learned you had to. You think everyone is like that. You think everyone is out to screw you over or just screw you. You learn to never trust what they say.

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And it takes everything in you to not walk away. And even when you walk away, you find yourself going back so many times because you miss him. You miss the adrenaline rush of high intense emotions. From love to screaming to making up. But then you meet a good guy. And sometimes you even push people away because of it. Even yourself. You wonder how you tolerated such a relationship for so long.

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